Reuniting the Sacred Masculine and Divine Feminine

Heal from the past and ignite polarity in your intimate relationships

A 2-hour immersive workshop with LIVE hot-seat coaching to support you to come into the fullest expression of who you are and how you relate.

Date: May 29th | 6PM CDT | 4PM PDT



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Does this sound familiar?

Despite your best intentions you get into another argument with your partner.

And even though you promised yourself you would keep your cool, practice imago dialogue, or take 3 deep breaths before you respond, you still couldn’t help but TRY convincing them why what they did was wrong or why your actions were justified.

Whether in your current or past relationship, patterns of misunderstanding happen way more than we'd like to admit.

You see, we’re not lacking tools for self-awareness and healthy relational dynamics.

We lack the in-the-moment awareness to choose better.

But not for the reasons you think…

What gets in the way of healthy relating?

  • Wounds from past relationships that tell us we need to armor and protect 
  • Ancestral trauma that overrides even the best of intentions and practice
  • Conditioning from our parents and upbringing that create addictive emotional patterns and keep us stuck in the loop of unproductive arguments
  • Women being too in their masculine or men being too much in their feminine
  • An intrinsic incompatibility… we’re not a great match for EVERYONE

It’s less about what is happening right now and more about what happened that's keeping you stuck in ways that don’t serve who you want to be or how you want to be in relationship.

Embodying the ways of the sacred masculine and divine feminine break old patterns and create opportunities for growth.

When you understand what men and women need you can better navigate the inevitable challenges of relationship.

How would your life and relationship be different if you could…

  • Feel seen, understood, heard, and honored for the true essence of who you are (maybe for the first time)
  • Have a new sense of peace and compassion for yourself and your partner (or future partner) knowing that you can handle any challenge that presents itself
  • Experience levels of intimacy and connection that you’ve only dreamed of
  • Know with relative certainty that your relationship can weather any storm

September 28th | 6PM CDT | 4PM PDT

In this workshop, you’ll learn…

  • How masculine and feminine energies are potentially out of alignment in your relationship (or why it was so you stay single) and what to do about it to experience lasting harmony
  • What the masculine needs by nature (to figure out the solution, go into his own space, etc.) and how you can set yourself up to support what your man needs
  • What the feminine needs by nature (she likes to talk about her issues, reaches out for support, etc.) and how to communicate what you need to your partner so he knows exactly how to support you
  • Beginning to unpack what your inner child needs in order to release the pain of the past and facilitate deeper connection and love in your relationship
  • Understanding your true essence (masculine, feminine, or balanced), where that may have been shamed or judged, and how to reclaim that essence
  • How to cultivate a deeper connection to yourself and cultivate clear standards and boundaries for what you’re willing to accept and not accept in relationship
  • How your relationship with yourself sets the tone for every relationship in your life and how to come more into alignment with your higher self and true desires

Why this workshop?

There is a need for a safe and sacred space to cultivate community in this way. The masculine and feminine lives within us all and as long as it remains unexamined then we become victim of what we consider fate. Really, it's faulty subconscious beliefs that we inherited from our family of origin, our religion, and society, that are playing out and guiding us in directions that do not serve us. That does not serve our joy. That does not bring us into the intimacy that we desire, and that keeps us separate from each other. This is an opportunity to drop our guards and come into a safe space where we can see ourselves more clearly and in so doing open our hearts to meeting each other as masculine and feminine and coming deeper into connection and community.


May 29th | 6PM CDT | 4PM PDT

Meet your instructor

Aubert Bastiat is a father, transformational coach, somatic facilitator, writer, speaker, and visionary founder of a men’s community which has helped catalyze a resurgence of masculine rites of passage and spotlight the importance of our psycho-spiritual wellbeing as men. Over the past decade, he has led, facilitated, and spoken on stages to support thousands. He is now stewarding the vision of masculine & feminine unity working with men, women, couples, and groups to bring about individual and collective transformation. He draws from many disciplines such as Psycho Neuro Energetics (Somatics), Inner Guidance (Somatics), HeartMath technologies, Substance Abuse and Addiction Recovery practices, Taoist philosophy, and wisdom traditions from around the world.

This is for you if...

  • You and your partner want to enhance your connection and truly understand what each other is motivated by and how to foster that
  • You’re a professional in the field of coaching, therapy, or counseling and want a new perspective on interpersonal dynamics
  • In the past, you’ve experienced codependency, jealousy, or being disproportionately upset with your partner considering the circumstances (or even source unknown)
  • Being single has become your default because the last couple of relationships were really hard and you’re not sure what to do
  • You’re at an impasse in a relationship and are unsure whether to move on or fully commit and do the work to heal and grow together
  • You have an unhealthy relationship with your parents and the same dynamics show up in your romantic relationships (always attracting emotionally unavailable partners, repulsed by people who are genuinely interested in you, etc.)

This is not for you if...

  • You’re not willing to put in the work to change (you will need to implement what you learn)
  • You’re not willing to be honest with yourself (change requires self-awareness and acceptance)
  • You’re not willing to shine a light on your shadows 
  • You see others as the source of your problems and are unwilling to take full responsibility for your part
  • You’re going to use this to give to your partner and not implement changes yourself 
  • You’re afraid of change and are 100% okay staying exactly where you are

What people are saying about Aubert

Jessica M.

Aubert provided me with a safe space to move through grief and rebuild trust and confidence within myself. Making the choice to work with him honestly changed the direction of my life for the better. He truly has a gift from God to help facilitate healing and growth in others.

Kristin P.

Before working with Aubert I was stuck in a negative cycle with toxic habits that I just couldn't break. From our first session, I felt such relief and hope! The shift in energy allowed me to have a clear mind and think straight to find out what was really going on with me. I was able to set goals and actually focus on achieving them. I would recommend working with Aubert to anyone and everyone.

Brittany B.

Since our time together, I have softened in my feminine essence, let go of control that I didn't need to hold, stopped overindulging in things that weren't serving me, and allowed myself to be seen and feel at peace with my past. Mostly, I'm ready to be a mother more than ever and my marriage is healthy and happy!

Reuniting the Sacred Masculine and Divine Feminine

Heal from the past and ignite polarity in your intimate relationships. Join us for this powerful 2-hour immersive workshop with LIVE hot-seat coaching to support you to come into the fullest expression of who you are and how you relate.


May 29th | 6PM CDT | 4PM PDT

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